My Story Supporting My daughter with BPD caused by a childhood trauma

Last Christmas: The Overwhelm No One Saw

Last Christmas: The Overwhelm No One Saw

Last Christmas: The Overwhelm No One SawSami Ward
Published on: 08/12/2025

Christmas isn’t always joy and glitter, for many young adults with BPD, trauma or emotional dysregulation, it’s a day of overwhelm, sensory overload and pressure to “perform.” This blog shares the unseen side of festive celebrations and the strategies parents use to support their child while holding everything together.

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Flexibility, Access & Listening: The Parent’s Guide to What Works (and What Doesn’t)

Flexibility, Access & Listening: The Parent’s Guide to What Works (and What Doesn’t)

Flexibility, Access & Listening: The Parent’s Guide to What Works (and What Doesn’t)Sami Ward
Published on: 17/11/2025

A compassionate guide for parents supporting young adults with emotional dysregulation and BPD traits. Learn how flexibility, accessibility, and listening can transform stressful days into calmer ones and what support really works.

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🦒 A Day That Finally Happened

🦒 A Day That Finally Happened

🦒 A Day That Finally HappenedSami Ward
Published on: 10/11/2025

After three cancellations, a mum and daughter finally make it to Yorkshire Wildlife Park. A story of flexibility, patience, and learning to plan life around emotional wellbeing, not the calendar.

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Learning in the Storm: Why Relapse After Discharge Is So Common

Learning in the Storm: Why Relapse After Discharge Is So Common

Learning in the Storm: Why Relapse After Discharge Is So CommonSami Ward
Published on: 31/10/2025

A parent’s honest guide to understanding relapse after psychiatric discharge, why it happens, what to look for, and how to stay grounded through it.

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Learning in the Storm: Surviving the First Week After Discharge

Learning in the Storm: Surviving the First Week After Discharge

Learning in the Storm: Surviving the First Week After DischargeSami Ward
Published on: 24/10/2025

A practical parent guide to coping after psychiatric discharge: safety planning, home-based ‘support’, night fears, and surviving the first week.

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Vaping, BPD and the Breathing Behind It: Why It’s About Calm, Not Nicotine

Vaping, BPD and the Breathing Behind It: Why It’s About Calm, Not Nicotine

Vaping, BPD and the Breathing Behind It: Why It’s About Calm, Not NicotineSami Ward
Published on: 17/10/2025

Vaping feels calming, but for many with BPD it’s the breathing, not the nicotine, that soothes. Learn how vaping affects calm and sleep.

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