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When You Leave, Everything Falls Apart. And It's Not Your Fault.

When You Leave, Everything Falls Apart. And It's Not Your Fault.by: Sami WardPublished on: 22/06/2026

When you leave, does everything fall apart? This honest post explores what fear of abandonment really looks like in young adults with emotional dysregulation and what mums can do when they come home to a hard week.

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When You Leave, Everything Falls Apart. And It's Not Your Fault.

She Makes Friends. Then She Loses Them. And She Doesn't Know Why

She Makes Friends. Then She Loses Them. And She Doesn't Know Whyby: Sami WardPublished on: 08/06/2026

If your young adult keeps losing friendships and doesn't know why, you're not alone. This honest post explores why friendship is so hard for young adults with emot

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She Makes Friends. Then She Loses Them. And She Doesn't Know Why