My Story Supporting My daughter with BPD caused by a childhood trauma

The Cycle of Guilt and Self-Blame: What’s Really Going On 🔄

The Cycle of Guilt and Self-Blame: What’s Really Going On 🔄by: Sami WardPublished on: 05/09/2025

If there’s one emotion that seems to follow my daughter everywhere, it’s guilt. Guilt for saying no. Guilt for struggling. Guilt for not being able to do what others find easy. Even guilt for feeling guilty.

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The Cycle of Guilt and Self-Blame: What’s Really Going On 🔄

Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over 💔📞

Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over 💔📞by: Sami WardPublished on: 01/09/2025

Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over. When we left for France, my daughter decided to stay home. It felt like the right choice for her at the time, avoiding the overwhelm of travel, new places, new food, the sheer noise of it all. But what none of us could predict was how quickly the silence at home would turn against her.

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Crisis From Afar: When Loneliness and Guilt Take Over 💔📞