My Story Supporting My daughter with BPD caused by a childhood trauma

A is for Anger: Why They Save Their Worst for You

A is for Anger: Why They Save Their Worst for Youby: Sami WardPublished on: 31/08/2026

Why our young people aim their rage at us, why it still hurts, and what to do with the anger you're not allowed to feel. You're not a bad mum. 💙

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A is for Anger: Why They Save Their Worst for You

Flexibility, Access & Listening: The Parent’s Guide to What Works (and What Doesn’t)

Flexibility, Access & Listening: The Parent’s Guide to What Works (and What Doesn’t)by: Sami WardPublished on: 17/11/2025

A compassionate guide for parents supporting young adults with emotional dysregulation and BPD traits. Learn how flexibility, accessibility, and listening can transform stressful days into calmer ones and what support really works.

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Flexibility, Access & Listening: The Parent’s Guide to What Works (and What Doesn’t)

🦒 A Day That Finally Happened

🦒 A Day That Finally Happenedby: Sami WardPublished on: 10/11/2025

After three cancellations, a mum and daughter finally make it to Yorkshire Wildlife Park. A story of flexibility, patience, and learning to plan life around emotional wellbeing, not the calendar.

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🦒 A Day That Finally Happened

Coming Out of Crisis: The Week After the Storm

Coming Out of Crisis: The Week After the Storm



by: Sami WardPublished on: 03/11/2025

The week after a psychiatric discharge isn’t calm; it’s fragile. A mother shares the truth about post-crisis exhaustion, fragile hope, and learning to breathe again.

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Coming Out of Crisis: The Week After the Storm